#elises100daysoffeelings day 47

Today I felt discouraged.  I took a full GRE practice exam and didn’t score nearly as well as I thought and hoped I would.  I kind of wanted to go down the bunny trail of what if I don’t get into any grad schools, what if I am reaching too high, what if I need to get beyond the ’10 best programs’?  I didn’t really let myself go there because I think eyes on the prize is the best way to go, but I wanted to.

But it felt good to be using my mind, to have a purpose that was more than a few hours and more than making things up to do.  I am so ready for that structure.  I accomplish so much more and not in a busy way of needing to get things done, but in a focused way of this what I need to and want to do and this is how I am going to accomplish it.

Right now it is hard to keep my eyes on the path I want.  When I have time, I loose sight of the goal of just living a well-lived life where I am putting my energy towards things that actually matter.  I get stuck in forgetting what I wanted to do, spending so much wasted time on social media and things that don’t matter and then look back with regret.  I savor and love the times of peace I have been able to have, of focused meditation and nothingness.  But I look back on that wasted time with the opposite feelings.  I instead feel regret and anger towards myself for not utilizing what I have.  I wish my past self, even my earlier today self, would have said no to screens and yes to books.  Because I always love reading more and there is so much more I want to learn.  But instead I spend probably hours on facebook.  It hinders me from getting things done and just bums me out afterwards.  And in my times of extra time, I find myself there more often.

I don’t know if it’s a matter of discipline or boredom…. but I am quite sure it is also connected to intuition.  If I asked myself what I really wanted to be doing and acted from that, I am so certain I would do my days differently.  I want to live a life where I am purposefully pursuing the things that I love.  With no regrets.  With no wasted days.  That means resting when I want to rest, investing in the things I am most passionate about, putting people first, and being at peace.  It means frequent pauses throughout the day.  It means going with the flow.

I am getting closer to that person when I remember, but it is the remembering that is hard.  I am not mad about myself for not remembering, but I am wondering how to get more ‘there’.

And fast ideally.  Even though I know that is often not the way to lasting change…

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